Archive for heartbreak

Letters from the College Dorms

Dear Jason M from the Bachelor,

Love is an important thing and being with someone you love is important (I get that – really I do), but breaking up on national television is uncalled for. Just think of how different it would have been id you had talked privately with your fiance prior to the show. You never let her in or told her what you were feeling. Communication is key in any relationship. You were just recently on the other side of that situation, you knew how it felt, and yet you did it anyway – in front of thousands of people. I can’t wait to see what you do in “After the Rose Ceremony Part II”.

- Someone who believes in privacy

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To Straight People who think they are better,

Members of the GLBT community are human too. They deal with the same things in their relationships that you deal with in yours. Except they also deal with crap from people like you. Partner abuse, getting kicked out, etc., doesn’t just happen in straight relationships. Get on with your life and let them live theirs. How they live their life does not have a direct affect on how you live yours so get over it.

-I’m not gay but my friends are

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Dear People in Need of Emergency Assistance,

If you get a busy signal when calling 911 for an EMERGENCY, just hang up and try again. There is a chance the person calling is just calling about a Fast Food Emergency and will be off the line shortly. To some, your emergency is not as important as McDonald’s running out of McNuggets and  refusing to refund the money (even though they offered something else). Don’t worry, your call is important and will be answered after we deal with the idiot who is going to die if they don’t receive their McNuggets.

-A college student who cares

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Dear Future Parents of America,

Hold onto your hats, you could be the first generation to be able to have designer babies. We knew it was going to happen some day, well that day no longer seems all that far away. Currently, the US has no laws against it. But be careful – remember the Nazis and the Arian race. We could have a whole new Arian Race on our hands.

-A woman standing up for mother nature

The Bachelor

Did anyone else watch the Bachelor tonight?

There’s Jason, he seems like a sweet guy. He’s been hurt before and he fell in love with two women (which doesn’t seem all that impossible given the situation he is put in), but what the heck is his problem? I completely understand wanting to follow his heart, but what I don’t understand is his need to destroy his fiance’s heart on national television.

He never even gave Melissa a chance. He spent all this time on the show talking about how he wanted someone who was going to be open with him. He was never open with her. She found out on the show (after he told the nation) that he couldn’t get Molly out of his head and that he was still in love with her.

Are you kidding me??

And what was Molly thinking?? Is she a fool. I know she said that she still loved him and she said that they would see where things would go, however, she was making out with him before the show was over. After the show was over my roommate had a great point: he has said “I love you” and “I can’t live without you” to FOUR women over the past THREE years.

How could a guy be so insensitive to break his fiance’s heart on NATIONAL TELEVISION????

I have been in a similar situation where I fell in love with a guy and he broke it off with me. I went back to him because I thought we were great together, we were in love. (Or so I was led to believe.) In reality, I was in love with ther person he was pretending to be. It ended up being worse the second time around.

Even though what he did was terrible, I hope he ends up happy, for his sake and for his son’s sake.

Live, Love, Learn, and Love again.

Heartbreak

My heart is broken
neatly in two
should it heal
only time will tell.
I loved you once and lost
only to repeat my fate
will another come along
to mend my weary state
should I ever love another
for you alone I see
from this bondage of despair
I long to be set free.
To hold you in my arms
is my hearts desire true
but forever my love
my heart must bid you adieu
forever you’ll remain in my heart
left to be solely friends
but you my love-
I’ll love you til the end.

-Erin 3/9/08

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